Dating Advice – One Crucial Dating Tip For Men
You know that feeling when you meet a great girl and both of you are starting to fall for each other. Maybe you’ve been dating for a while, or maybe you just met and went crazy on each other. Maybe you don’t know, maybe you do. I’ve had a few of those. In my experience, however, they never for very long.
All women like that feeling for a little while. In fact, if you ask a woman how to describe that feeling, she would probably say something along the lines of “security”. Women know that they should go for the guy that unconditionally loves them from the moment they meet.
If she picks a man like that, she will be “secure” that this man will find her attractive for a long time. He will most likely give her anything that she asks for, even if it compromises his own best interest.
For a woman, there is no challenge in that. If you let a woman walk all over you, SHE WILL. It is in her nature to test you. In fact, it is in everyone’s nature to test our significant others.
You may not even know that you are “testing” your partner or date, however we all do this as a way to figure out who that other person really is in a relatively short amount of time.
I have a weakness for Aries women. They always seem to charm me even when I try not to let them. Aries women are very bad about not being happy when they are treated right, and they are even worse about falling in and out of love with someone.
I developed the following technique to keep women who are very easily bored with one man, like Aries women, interested for as long as I wanted them to be.
Although I developed this as a way to keep an Aries woman interested, this technique has really become an essential dating rule that I use with every woman that I date.
Now, I know that was a long setup for one dating tip, but I thought this technique would have more meaning if you understood where I was coming from when I came up with it.
The technique is simply this: Never get ahead of your girl emotionally. That means let her ask you for a relationship, and not the other way around. Don’t say “I love you” before she does. You don’t have to answer her questions all of the time, especially if it involves questions about the future.
It is okay to call her on her BS tests. You don’t have to do anything that you don’t want to do. In fact, you should always have the attitude that you are the way you are, and if she doesn’t like it she can hit the road. That is the attitude to take, but you should never actually need say that.
It may sound unorthodox to you right now, but it works. The reason it works so well is due to the fact that women get bored with men, and they love challenging men.
If you can pull off that Bad Boy mystique, an air of emotional detachment that lets women know that they have to stay on their toes in order to keep you around, you while create challenge and excitement for women.
Excitement is the only thing that can keep a woman that has options in your corner. If you can create enough excitement with a woman, she will fall in love with you every single time.
I give out a lot of dating advice on this site, but the best single dating tip I could give another guy would be: Always let your girl go first when it comes to the emotional part of the relationship. Try to appear to be a little less emotionally involved than she is (even if you are actually more involved), and adopt the Bad Boy mystique to your own personality.
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