The #1 Mistake Guys Make About Attracting Women
When it comes to attracting a woman, most guys make this simple but devastating mistake: They believe that you must be very handsome or wealthy to attract women, or that you must fit into the tall, dark, and handsome profile to be attractive to women.
It’s easy to understand why a guy would think that way. Everywhere you look, on tv shows, magazines, and in advertisements you are lead to believe that women only go for the tall, dark, and handsome type.
The average guy does not fit into that type, so is you compare yourself to what is shown on tv, magazines, etc… you might start to think that you are unattractive to women. However, women don’t actually work that way…
Women are much more concerned about your personality than your looks. If you look tall, dark, and handsome, but you have a shit personality… women will still reject your ass.
So when you think about it, the hottest women (the ones
who can have their pick of men) will usually end up with an average or below average looking guy.
If your personality rocks… you’ve got a huge edge on the competition. You’re looks can only get you so far.
To top it off, men aren’t beautiful. I said it. At least not 99% of men. Men aren’t designed to be judged on our beauty.
The average looking girl, on the other hand, is beautiful. Women catch our eye with their beauty, but eventually they are judged by their personality as well.
In The Past I had a hard time attracting a woman that I considered to be a quality woman. I would see tons of average or less looking guys pulling tens left and right. I couldn’t figure it out.
You’ve all seen it. A really hot chick with a ‘just average’ or less looking guy. I used to wonder what they had that I didn’t. How were they getting these gorgeous women?
I had trouble with the question of what I had to offer these really hot women that could have their pick of any man. If you think that women are attracted the same way that men are, then you are doomed to feel the same way that I have in the past.
Fast forward to today and I can honestly tell you that it’s natural and easy for me to create attraction with a woman. The techniques that I use today blend very nice with my natural personality. That’s because knowing this stuff is like having a cheat sheet for dating.
If you simply learn what actions and behavior turn women off and how to avoid those mistakes yourself, you can be your best self. You can be the most attractive you – more attractive to women and everyone else, as well.
In fact, if you really get down to the nuts and bolts of how the dating game works, you can make yourself a forced to be reckoned with in no time. By using the same techniques taught on this blog and in the guides that I recommend, you can make attracting women second nature to you.
Recommended Reading
In the past few years, I’ve read many dating and seduction guides by many different authors. Many of them have been very good, but one stands out from the rest. Double Your Dating by David DeAngelo is my top rated guide for a few reasons. To learn more about attracting a woman from David D, Click Here.
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